I have nothing to add to the political to and fro, but while everyone acknowledges that moms raising kids at home are not lazy, this seems like a good moment to remind ourselves that they are making genuine contributions to the economy, too. It’s a topic I take up as part of a larger discussion on women and work in a chapter I contributed to Hallie Lord’s recently-released book, "Style, Sex & Substance: 10 Catholic Women Consider the Things That Really Matter."
For starters, as I write in the book, people don’t exist to support the economy, the economy exists to support people:
There was a time when each household had to provide everything for itself. “Economy,” in fact, comes from the Greek word for household management and it refers to all the activity necessary for a household to have what it needs. Each family planted crops, hunted game, spun its own cloth and so forth in a division of labor that assured everyone in the household –typically including not only a nuclear family, but extended relatives and servants because it took a lot of people to perform all the necessary tasks—had what they needed to live well.
“Business” is a form of task specialization, by which the household outsources what it used to have to do itself to others. Increasing specialization of this kind has led to massive changes in social organization, but it hasn’t changed the essential nature of the activity, which is to provide households with what they need to live well. We don’t talk about economics in these terms because we have become philosophical materialists, interested only in what and how, never concerning ourselves with the questions how does this arise and towards what is it ordered.
The economy exists to be sure each household has what it needs. What that requires may look different for each household (does it make more sense for us to outsource childcare or provide it ourselves?), but it’s the flourishing of the human person that is the point. Is someone sneering at you for not working outside the home? Smile. They work for you!
Even in strictly material terms, a mother (or a dad) raising kids at home is performing a great good for society. Here I learn from my friend John Mueller, in whose book, "Redeeming Economics," he notes that there are two forms of capital. There is physical capital (machinery, computers and other things businesses invest in so they can operate). There is also human capital (the muscle power and creativity of people who work).