• Chief among any ambition or enterprise should be the desire to glorify God first and foremost. All great initiatives flow from this. St. Benedict never sought out to lay the foundations of a new Christian civilization, but that is what he did by desiring to glorify God. St. Ignatius of Loyola set out to magnify the Lord in his spirituality, but the unintended consequences led to the needed reforms in the Church. As our Lord said, seek the kingdom of God and everything else will be given to you.
• Believe that everything that happens to you comes from the hand of God, either through his permission or through him willing it. As Job said, “The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD.” Notice he didn’t say that evil men or Satan has taken away, but the Lord has taken away. Everything that happens in our life- good or bad –is part of an intelligent design. All things work together for the good for those who love the Lord.
• As such, will what God wills. This is very difficult in times of trial but it has a purifying effect. Indeed, do God’s will with joy in both disagreeable and agreeable circumstances accepting all things with equal reverence. St. Paul said, "I know indeed how to live in humble circumstances; I know also how to live with abundance. In every circumstance and in all things I have learned the secret of being well fed and of going hungry, of living in abundance and of being in need. I have the strength for everything through him who empowers me."
• In addition to seeing and loving Christ in the Most Holy Sacrament of the Altar, revere and love him in your neighbor and especially the poor. It was said that Mother Theresa bowed when being introduced to people. Bowing was her way of showing reverence to Christ in others. Giving her time to the poor was her way of serving Him. Every canonized Saint loved the poor!
• Avoid detraction, slander or gossip. Do you very best to give people the benefit of the doubt. Constructive criticism or confrontation should be used, as our Lord used it, for the good of souls or the common good. The trick is knowing when it is legitimate and pleasing to our Lord and knowing when it is sinful.
• When rejected, reprimanded or humiliated, accept it with joy knowing that this is a powerful participation in the Passion of our Lord Jesus. BTW- The Saints teach that the most efficacious meditation is that on our Lord's Passion.