Oct 20, 2011
The experience of many Catholics at Mass reminds me of my Italian cousin Stefano’s first time to an NFL football game. Coming from Italy, Stefano knew football very well—but his football was soccer!
So when he first visited the USA and our family took him to a Chicago Bears football game, he did not grasp all that was happening on the field. When the Bears sacked the opposing team’s quarterback, my family stood up and cheered. And Stefano did the same. But when we sat back down, he asked me, “Why is everyone happy? Did the Bears score?”
When the referee made a bad call on the field, we stood up again, but this time we booed, raising our hands in frustration. Stafano stood up with us. He yelled and raised his hands, too, but he wasn’t sure why. “What just happened?” he asked. “Did the other team get a point?”
Then, after the Bears blocked a punt and returned it for a touchdown, the stadium erupted in a roar of cheers. Everyone leapt out of their seats, screaming, “Yeahhhhh!” Bears fans jumped up and down, hugged each other and gave each other high fives. In the midst of this frenzy, the stranger in front of us turned around to slap Stefano’s hand. My Italian cousin pretended to be very excited and gave the man a good high five. I looked over at him to see if he needed an explanation of the play on the field. But this time, Stefano didn’t bother asking for clarification. He just smiled at me and continued clapping, as if to say, “I’m really not sure what is going on, but it must be good for the Bears.”